Syaitan

Bismillah..

How bad this feeling. ='(

i did an awful thing.

I scolded my students, not by being strict. Angry..with capital A.

If truth be told, the issue in which they received my blow was.. rather mudane.

Ya Allah,sungguh there's a fine line dalam memarahi. 

i just..learned it today. ='(

what happened was..i was exhausted. Six periods straight, no breaks. Each class, I was really disappointed, because my aim was not met, that they haven't learned what they should have. That I've only just learned that the old kids haven't learned the fundamental basics. New kids surpasses them. How is it that their eyes becomes vacant? I expect more from them (old kids)..

i was..sore.

The first class, there's a little boy..he's 'sensitve', if you understand. At that moment, when i recall 'how' he is, there comes a whisper..urging me to challenge him. I get angry on purpose. Somehow, it carries to the next period and the next, and the next. I tried to gain back my bearings, but as I said..no breaks, and i was hurled into something too soon, too fast, too noisy.

The last class, I was...aware i became ballistic. I 'need' one thing to go right..and they screw up. Once. It's nothing to be furious about.

Yet, exasperation wins, and ...

I'm sorry, M. I'm sorry. *heartbreaks*

 I have no excuse for what I did.

I..let my anger flows.

When his parents called..common teacher excuses passed through my head. common traditional-style-education-i've-had-it-worse-in-my-days were all there.

Then, I realized what they are. Denial defensive excuses. Infact, weak excuses that meant nothing to those parents..to me.

I'm forced to confront who I DO NOT want to be and yet, that's exactly what I DID..

 I was between my ego and truth.

I choose truth, so I opened the Qur'an, expecting verses such as "La taghdob (Jangan marah)", instead..

"Dan (dikatakan kepada org2 kafir), "Berpisahlah  kamu (dari org-org mukmin) pada hari ini, wahai org2 yg berdosa!

Bukankah Aku telah memerintahkan kepadamu wahai anak cucu Adam agar kamu tidak menyembah setan? Sungguh, setan itu musuh yang nyata bagi kamu,

dan hendaklah kamu menyembah-Ku. Inilah jalan yang lurus."

Dan sungguh, ia (setan itu) telah menyesatkan sebagian besar di antara kamu. Maka apakah kamu mengerti?

inilah (neraka) Jahanam yang dahulu telah diperingatkan kepadamu.

Masuklah ke dalamnya pada hari ini kerana dahulu kamu mengingkarinya.

Pada hari ini Kami tutup mulut mereka, tangan mereka akan berkata kepada Kami dan kaki mereka akan memberi kesaksian terhadap apa yang dahulu mereka kerjakan."

Yasin, 36: 59-65

Ya Allah.. ="(((((((((

I thought I only followed my anger..

It's far far worst..

It was a split moment and yet, it's still a conscious choice

my choice to follow anger

is to follow syaitan.

I thought i'm rid of my Jahiliyyah

Allah knows how long this journey is

i'm still far from it

Still..Alhamdulillah, He knocks some sense back into me

showed me how i could still 'slip' up, so easily

Moral for today:

La Tagdob

don't follow syaitan

It may seem mudane

but Anger never is

They(syaitan) are slick..very very slick..they have their whole lifetime since the creation of Adam to perfect the art of deception

You be careful

with yourself, with the syaitan within

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